Any minister asked to marry a man and a woman shall
participate with them in instruction and discussion of the
privileges and obligations they will assume
in Christian marriage.
The Presiding Minister will meet with the couple prior to the wedding to review the Christian understanding of marriage, the bride and groom’s readiness for marriage to each other, and the wedding service. At this time, arrangements for the wedding will be discussed.
Appointments for premarital counseling should be scheduled well in advance of the wedding. It is the responsibility of the bride and groom to make the appointments. After the first meeting, the minister will set requirements regarding the number of appointments with the couple and whether or not additional professional counseling is recommended. It is part of UPC’s ministry to the couple to help them consider carefully their suitability for one another.
